Have More Sex: A 6-step course to feel more fulfilled in the bedroom—even if you’re too tired, never in the mood, or feel like sex is a chore SKU: 217148


Have More Sex helps you get to the root cause of why you aren't having sex as often as you'd like...so that you can have more of it AND feel more fulfilled by the sex you're having. Inspired by and rooted in the science of Emily Nagoski’s seminal book, Come As You Are, you’ll learn a step-by-step process that guides you to know where to start AND how to follow through. Through 6 actionable learning modules and 3 worksheets to apply what you learn to your own life—plus an ever-growing list of bonus resources and recommendations—you’ll go through the exact process that has helped hundreds increase their libido, get in the mood more regularly, and have more sex.

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Fun, frequent, fulfilling sex doesn't have to be a myth.

It’s easy for life to interfere with your intimacy. From competing demands on your time to the emotional upheaval of the last few years to internalized expectations about what your sex life *should* look like…

It’s not uncommon to feel distant and disconnected from yourself and your partner/s. For desire to fade and sex to feel like just another chore on your to-do list…

You might wonder:

Am I missing out? Is everyone else having more sex than me?!!

(and you’re certainly not alone in that question!)

Whether You're

  • Wanting more but having less sex
  • Feeling resentful and disappointed when you “do it for them”
  • Worrying about the future of your relationship
  • Feeling frustrated, broken, or inadequate
  • Fighting more often with your beau/s
  • Blaming yourself for the lack of sex

It’s not your fault, and there is a way to shift it. 

Have More Sex is the 6-step course that helps you get to the root cause of why you aren't having sex as often as you'd like...so that you can have more of it AND feel more fulfilled by the sex you're having.

By the end of this course you’ll

  • Feel close and connected to yourself and your relationship 
  • Be on the same page libido-wise as your partner/s
  • Be excited about and want to have sex (again)
  • Enjoy the fun and release of sex regularly
  • Feel confident in and excited about the future of your relationship
  • Understand how your desire and arousal actually work—so that you can have more of both
  • Know that you are complete and whole and “normal,” just as you are

This course is for you if...

  • Sex feels like a chore but you want to want it!
  • You worry about the future of the relationship and how it can continue when you don’t really have sex
  • You (and/or your partner/s) wish you were having more sex
  • You wish your libido (or your beau’s) were higher
  • You or your partner recently had a big life change (e.g. gave birth, new health diagnosis, etc) and your sex life hasn’t been the same since
  • You’re interested in going beyond surface level quick fixes into addressing the root cause

How It Works

Inspired by and rooted in the science of Emily Nagoski’s seminal book, Come As You Are, you’ll learn a step-by-step process that guides you to know where to start AND how to follow through.

Here are the 6 actionable learning modules you'll be guided through:

Module 1—Welcome + Reframe

In this module, Kait welcomes you to the course, answers the #1 question she hears about libido, and shares a powerful reframe on the issue of low and mismatched desire.

Module 2—Set Yourself Up for Sex-cess

Get set up for a powerful experience by learning what to expect, plus Kait’s#1 tip for getting the most out of this experience.

Module 3—All About Arousal

Learn why “trying new things” doesn’t solve your libido issue. Instead, you’ll understand the two types of arousal and a foolproof way to know just how turned on you—and your partner/s—are. You’ll also debunk common myths around arousal and learn how to address common issues.

Module 4—Discovering Desires

Discover three things desire is (and one that it isn’t), plus learn practical and powerful strategies for what to do if you feel frustrated by desire that’s low or not coming up as often as you’d like.

Module 5—Context, Context, Context

Dive deep into what context is, why it matters, and what research has identified as the ideal context for most people. You’ll also be led through an interactive practice to discover YOUR ideal context—the exact steps you need to have more fun and frequent sex starting ASAP.

Module 6—Maximize Your Desire

Get to know the research-backed strategies to increase how often you want—and have—sex, especially if you feel like you have lower or no spontaneous desire. Plus, close out with final takeaway and how to get personalized support to take the learnings of the Have More Sex course even higher.

What You'll Receive

6 actionable learning modules (in video or audio format - your choice!) that take you through the exact, step-by-step process that have helped hundreds increase their libido, get in the mood more regularly, and have more sex. - $888 value

3 worksheets to help you apply what you learn to your own sex life  - $199 value

  • Worksheet 1: How sensitive is your sexual gas pedal and brake?
  • Worksheet 2: What’s the right sexy context for you?
  • Worksheet 3: How to create your most fun, fulfilling sex life

Lube recommendations to help you understand if and what kinds of lube to add, and to save you time and money on getting ones that won’t actually work for you - $99 value

Bonus resources featuring dozens of real life examples and follow along activities of how to incorporate the strategies from the course into your own life. - $99 value

Private course hub for immediate access to all the materials so you can dive in right way (no account creation or login required!) - $199 value

PLUS THIS BONUS! 

3 Steps to a Higher Libido and More Frequent Sex - $500 value

In this workshop you will learn:

  • the two most common reasons you or your partner’s sex drive is low
  • practical and powerful techniques to get in the mood
  • the #1 step you can take to start having more fun and frequent sex ASAP
  • live Q&A including hot search coaching, your opportunity to see how to apply the tools to different people’s unique situations
  • seeing the tools in the course in action

TOTAL VALUE: $1984

But you can start to Have More Sex for as little as $499!

Imagine…

Imagine how it would feel to be excited about sex again instead of it feeling like one more chore on your to-do list. 

You’d finally get that much needed physical connection with your partner/s to explore, connect, and enjoy one another.

You’d be on the same page sexually and get to enjoy the fun and release of sex regularly.

You’d feel confident in yourself and your relationship—you’ll know what you want and be ready to initiate. 

You’d want to want it.

MAKE THAT YOUR REALITY—GET STARTED TODAY WITH THE HAVE MORE SEX COURSE.


About the Creator

"You’re the only person I’ve ever told this to…"

Hi, I’m Kait, PbK’s Founder and Executive Director. Over the past 12+ years working as a sex educator and coach, I’ve heard these words from thousands of people of all genders, sexualities, ages, races, ability, religions, relationship structures, and politics.

What’s the “this” they’re talking about? 

Not having enough sex…and the associated feelings of shame and self-blame.

I GET IT.

As someone in a long-term relationship (17+ years!) who’s navigated long distance, multiple chronic illnesses, disability, family cancer, body changes, and changes in desire/ability to “have” sex, I know how scary it is when your sex life goes from MMHMM to UMMMMM/seems to have disappeared overnight OR when it feels like you’re careening into bed death and you don’t know where to start to fix it! 

  • You might start to blame yourself
  • Feel broken
  • Pick fights
  • Get stuck in a cycle where one person keeps asking and the other…keeps saying no. And both of you feel like shit in the process.
  • Feel like you’re missing out on an important part of your relationship

I've taken hundreds of clients—individuals, couples, newlyweds, new parents, disabled folx, and more—through the process outlined in the Have More Sex course, both 1:1 in my sex coaching practice and in group workshops. And, I use it in my own life too.