Have More Sex helps you get to the root cause of why you aren't having sex as often as you'd like...so that you can have more of it AND feel more fulfilled by the sex you're having. Inspired by and rooted in the science of Emily Nagoski’s seminal book, Come As You Are, you’ll learn a step-by-step process that guides you to know where to start AND how to follow through. Through 6 actionable learning modules and 3 worksheets to apply what you learn to your own life—plus an ever-growing list of bonus resources and recommendations—you’ll go through the exact process that has helped hundreds increase their libido, get in the mood more regularly, and have more sex.
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It’s easy for life to interfere with your intimacy. From competing demands on your time to the emotional upheaval of the last few years to internalized expectations about what your sex life *should* look like…
It’s not uncommon to feel distant and disconnected from yourself and your partner/s. For desire to fade and sex to feel like just another chore on your to-do list…
You might wonder:
Am I missing out? Is everyone else having more sex than me?!!
(and you’re certainly not alone in that question!)
Have More Sex is the 6-step course that helps you get to the root cause of why you aren't having sex as often as you'd like...so that you can have more of it AND feel more fulfilled by the sex you're having.
Inspired by and rooted in the science of Emily Nagoski’s seminal book, Come As You Are, you’ll learn a step-by-step process that guides you to know where to start AND how to follow through.
Module 1—Welcome + Reframe
In this module, Kait welcomes you to the course, answers the #1 question she hears about libido, and shares a powerful reframe on the issue of low and mismatched desire.
Module 2—Set Yourself Up for Sex-cess
Get set up for a powerful experience by learning what to expect, plus Kait’s#1 tip for getting the most out of this experience.
Module 3—All About Arousal
Learn why “trying new things” doesn’t solve your libido issue. Instead, you’ll understand the two types of arousal and a foolproof way to know just how turned on you—and your partner/s—are. You’ll also debunk common myths around arousal and learn how to address common issues.
Module 4—Discovering Desires
Discover three things desire is (and one that it isn’t), plus learn practical and powerful strategies for what to do if you feel frustrated by desire that’s low or not coming up as often as you’d like.
Module 5—Context, Context, Context
Dive deep into what context is, why it matters, and what research has identified as the ideal context for most people. You’ll also be led through an interactive practice to discover YOUR ideal context—the exact steps you need to have more fun and frequent sex starting ASAP.
Module 6—Maximize Your Desire
Get to know the research-backed strategies to increase how often you want—and have—sex, especially if you feel like you have lower or no spontaneous desire. Plus, close out with final takeaway and how to get personalized support to take the learnings of the Have More Sex course even higher.
6 actionable learning modules (in video or audio format - your choice!) that take you through the exact, step-by-step process that have helped hundreds increase their libido, get in the mood more regularly, and have more sex. - $888 value
3 worksheets to help you apply what you learn to your own sex life - $199 value
Lube recommendations to help you understand if and what kinds of lube to add, and to save you time and money on getting ones that won’t actually work for you - $99 value
Bonus resources featuring dozens of real life examples and follow along activities of how to incorporate the strategies from the course into your own life. - $99 value
Private course hub for immediate access to all the materials so you can dive in right way (no account creation or login required!) - $199 value
3 Steps to a Higher Libido and More Frequent Sex - $500 value
In this workshop you will learn:
But you can start to Have More Sex for as little as $499!
Imagine how it would feel to be excited about sex again instead of it feeling like one more chore on your to-do list.
You’d finally get that much needed physical connection with your partner/s to explore, connect, and enjoy one another.
You’d be on the same page sexually and get to enjoy the fun and release of sex regularly.
You’d feel confident in yourself and your relationship—you’ll know what you want and be ready to initiate.
You’d want to want it.
"You’re the only person I’ve ever told this to…"
Hi, I’m Kait, PbK’s Founder and Executive Director. Over the past 12+ years working as a sex educator and coach, I’ve heard these words from thousands of people of all genders, sexualities, ages, races, ability, religions, relationship structures, and politics.
What’s the “this” they’re talking about?
Not having enough sex…and the associated feelings of shame and self-blame.
I GET IT.
As someone in a long-term relationship (17+ years!) who’s navigated long distance, multiple chronic illnesses, disability, family cancer, body changes, and changes in desire/ability to “have” sex, I know how scary it is when your sex life goes from MMHMM to UMMMMM/seems to have disappeared overnight OR when it feels like you’re careening into bed death and you don’t know where to start to fix it!
I've taken hundreds of clients—individuals, couples, newlyweds, new parents, disabled folx, and more—through the process outlined in the Have More Sex course, both 1:1 in my sex coaching practice and in group workshops. And, I use it in my own life too.